Getting over a breakup is tough. When a relationship ends it can be a blow to your ego and send your self esteem plummeting. It’s completely normal to feel bad about a relationship ending. Time heals all wounds, and these bad feelings will pass. Follow these tips to help with the transition and get yourself back into the swing of things!
Take time to acknowledge the fact that yes, you have been hurt. But don’t wallow in self pity. It’s not the first time, and it won’t be the last. That’s just how life is. You are a strong person, and in time this will make you stronger. Try and use it as a learning experience moving forward, and accept it wasn’t meant to be.
2. Focus on the negative. Yes you read that right! Think about the things about your ex you didn’t like. So many times we idealise failed relationships and only think of the good things we have lost. Well, no one is perfect and there are probably things about your former lover you will be glad no longer affect you.
3. Block contact. Don’t torture yourself by checking their social media. Even if you have agreed to remain friends, keep your distance at first. You can’t move on until you are over them, and maintaining contact, while tempting, is counterproductive.
4. Find a distraction. Phone sex chat can be a great way to distract yourself and have some fun. It’s free to try and always free for ladies, so calling and engaging in a little fun harmless flirting may be just the thing to help you feel better. Phone sex chat is a nonstop party you can join in on any time, and all the people are local to your area.
Do whatever it takes to put a smile on your face. You are worth it, you deserve it, and life is too short to cry over the past.
