They say that, when you smile over the phone, the other person can hear it in your voice, right? Well, the same happens with sexual desire: only if you’re aroused yourself you’ll be able to turn on other people, too. That’s why preparing in advance for your hot phone sex live session is vital if you want to make the most out of it.
First of all, you’ll have to find a quiet place to make your call. Obviously you don’t want your wife to walk on you while you’re about to cum while you chat with a stranger!
Your workplace too isn’t ideal, since your coworkers can be nosier than you think if they happen to overhear you chatting about sex with someone.
Otherwise, you’ll probably focus on avoiding to be caught by others rather than on your sexual pleasure.
Then, relax. Don’t rush dialing the wild phone sex number as soon as you come back home from work, unless you’re already horny and you need immediate release.
Every person has their different way to relax, e.g. drinking a hot tea, reading a newspaper or doing some light physical activity. Remember: if you’re stressed or too tired, that hot stranger on the other end of the sex number will feel it, and the atmosphere won’t be very sexy…
Watching some porn to help you switch from a “work” mindset to a sexy mindset can be very helpful, too. Just make sure that you turn it off as soon as you start the call: the background noise can disturb your dirty conversations, and the other person may not be happy if you’re watching hardcore material while your full attention should be theirs.
Choose something soft-core that creates the right mood without getting you off. You want to save your orgasm for the hot kinky chat over the phone, remember?
Finally, when you feel ready to start the chat, try building up arousal one little step at a time. Whether you’re having phone sex with a dirty MILf or a shy teen, she’ll love it, and it will help you too having a better orgasm in the end.
